Saturday, November 16, 2024

I found that plants help me feeling peace and healing my soul!

 by Somaly

Namaste wonderful souls and dear readers, 

Let's introduce about my childhood! I was born countryside in Cambodia. my father is a retired teacher and my mother use to be a housewife and farm. they were working hard to raise four children. I  helped my parents doing farm work after I finished my school. I grown up with rice farm, plants, chicken, ducks, cows, dogs, cats, and fish in pond. I used a small net for catching some fish in small lakes and ponds. my childhood friends and I played with mud paddles and use clay soil for building our clay toys. we did not have toys in small village and our parents could afford to buy some toys. their priority was to providing us meals, education, health fee, shelter, and clothes. they love, support, take a good care, and  provide safety and secure environments. our family live with simple lifestyle. my father was a teacher and breadwinner in our family. he had big impact with his student's life. his salary was small. my mother worked and grew rice in our farm. she sell some rice products at the end of season, so they could have extra more money for support education and daily expense. 

After I move to Phnom Penh city, I lost connecting with nature, and animals. I lived and work in city over eight years before I moved to Australia in 2020. I was so lucky that I came to Australia before lock down and boarder restriction. my husband and I live in house. the land did not have many plants, vegetables, and flowers. I could not work or doing volunteer in Australia during Covid-19 period. I decided to learn how to grow vegetables, flowers, and fruit tree in our renting property. we got permission from our landlord that we grow any plants in their property. I started to reconnect with plants and wild animals. I feel love, peace, relaxing, and grounding with my plants. I grow indoor and outdoor plants. I have been grow a hundred types plants in our garden and inside our house. my garden benefit to wild animal, insects, and others ecosystem. every-time I grow any plants in the land, they are growing healthy, flowering, and giving us their fruits. I know that I have discovery my hide talents and a positive new hobby. my soul found it calling and I feel healing and understanding the meaningful in nature. I just read some garden books, practice in my own gardening, and look some Gardening Australia video in YouTube. I got some insight, inspiration, and knowledge in doing my own garden. Here is their offical link (https://www.youtube.com/@GardeningAustralia). their garden presenter was skills, and share good tips. I watched their shows. they have many australia gardener and garden experts across Australia. I love to see others' garden. 

These was my small garden project.

our renting property use to have grass lawn in 2020. this is our backyard.



we created a garden project in many years. we created our dream life in these beautiful land. this picture took in 2022.


These our front-yard garden picture took 2023. we grow our seasonal garden. we learn to cook, preserved, and use our vegetables as much as possible.

Mid year 2024, I created So&Jo Fairy Garden YouTube channel, so I could record beautiful memories and experiences with other people who love plants and nature too. It was a new beginning of my YouTube journal. I am in learning progress on how to film these video. It was not perfect video. Everyday I am in good progress. I am self-taught on technology and social media. I also studied and worked at the same time. Here is My Garden YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwSRGX5qEWbTxt7xVhd96yg) or link.

Nowadays, I spend ten hour per-week in the garden. I really enjoy talk about garden topic and doing garden. when I face some difficult situation and challenges in my daily life, I took my mini mattock and dig the weeds in our garden and prepare new soils in raise garden beds. These garden and plants have positive in my mental health and overall physical health. I feel connect with the earth. I feel grateful and joyful in nature and garden. I build my secure and safe environment for my families and natural ecosystem. I create a own quote " I am a small seed who grow in fertile soils. my tiny tree grow in the universe. every branches are my skills, knowledge, experiences, and memories that I build overtime. my sweet little fruits are my achievements such as freedom, health, wealth, happy married, good friendships, and our future babies."

When I looked back on my childhood memories, I am grateful for my parents, grandparents, ancestors, siblings, uncles, aunties, cousins, relatives, and Cambodia communities. thank you for being a part of my life and support my dreams. I love my homeland and I am proud to be a Cambodian. 


Monday, November 11, 2024

I got sucked at Dracula's Cabaret

 

Specifically, at the Gold Coast branch.

by: Icie

My best friend came over from my home country and wanted to see what the night life was like, so I decided to take her to Dracula's Cabaret. For something spicy this Halloween, I went to Queensland's premier tourist trap which is the Gold Coast. I've been there several times, being a Queenslander, but I have yet to experience the raunchy cabaret. We went there with my partner to see scantily clad people doing spreadies to the gods while we're eating. It didn't matter if it was a one and a half hour drive from our place and it cost around $115 per person, sexy people were calling and we were there to watch.
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The latest show was called Menagerie and it was exotic animal themed. Outside, we saw pictures of the cast on digital posters to get a glimpse of what to expect for the show. Inside there was a video of a goth girl warning us of the terrors within. It was complete with rumbling floor, the screams of the damned and impatient guests. While waiting to get in, we took some selfies near the Whispering Haemorrhoids.

Then there was a small train ride full of ghosts and monsters that took us to the main part of the castle. It was fun, campy and full of silicone horrors but might be too scary for those of the faint of heart.

THE BAR: let me take a moment to appreciate the interior design of this place.


Lots of photos were allowed so my best friend and I took all of the campiness out of our system and embraced the cheese of being in a place like this.

Off to the theatre we went for dinner and a show. It was queer coded and I love it! I love, love, love it!!!



The performances were great and I ended up not eating too much because my eyes were glued to the stage. It's a fun thing to do if you're into this kind of thing and have money to spare.












Oh yeah, at the end of it all, you get sucked.
Happy Halloween!

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Saturday, November 2, 2024

The first acupuncture treatments in my life!

 by: Somaly

Namaste wonderful souls and dear readers, 

In the past, I don't know why I am so afraid of needle? I was born in Cambodia. I just remember when some doctors inject needles in my body. It was painful and hurt. as result,  I am very scared of needle. I did not visit doctor if I was not sick. I rarely sick when I was in Cambodia. I just remembered when I was sick. I was dizzy, fatigue, and headache.

Nowadays, when my general doctor asked for blood tests, I always feel nervous and anxious. I through in my mind " why do Australia doctors need my blood test most of the time?". well, I have more than one hundred blood test in the last five years. I just follow the health professionals instructions. I just don't look and take deep breath every-time that a phlebotomist perform their procedure.

After I did ultrasound test and got results. I found out that my health and body is not fully healing. I still have some new lumps grow near my previous surgery. then I decided to receive acupuncture treatments. acupuncture treatment is expensive, new concept, and can be pretty scary things for a person who already afraid of needle like me. I would like to trying this new method which I believed that it might help my healing process. I am willing to do it and I hope for a better health and completely heal my body in future. I learn and understand about health and body needs. I did not aware and recognised that I have these hidden illness. now I have an opportunity to be heal and be health again. 

In my currently situations,  I face the most scary and uncomfortable things by doing acupuncture. I really honest and openly with acupuncture doctor about my health and needles' anxiety. the doctor said that I have dampness health condition. I did some research some understand the root cause and diet suggestion. I had two acupuncture treatments. I feel some improvement and manage my needle anxiety. I thought" I am will be okay. and I will be healing" and take deep breath every-time doctor inject acupuncture needles and cupping therapy on my body points. the doctor avoid to inject many needles in my first treatment because I could build up my confidence, and manage my needle anxiety better in upcoming treatments.  this was my first treatment picture look likes:

 
 I feel that I might be emotion and  have an intense feeling in my heart at moments. I might not only person who face health issues. I hope my experiences and stories could help others who have similar situation and health condition. especially, I pray for you all with better health, better future, and completely health your life. may you feel love, peace, and  comfort. I am moving forward to be healthy again, better lifestyle, and bright future. these writings and share experiences help release all intense and blockage in my heart. 

Legal Disclaimer: These my stories and experience must not be a replacement for professional advice,  health professional instructions, and medical treatments. If you require guidance in any of these areas, Please seek advice from a qualified professional. 

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